As the title may suggest, Jack and I are engaged! We couldn't be happier about it. We are in the process of deciding where and when to have the wedding, so we will keep everyone posted as we iron out our plans.
I am guessing what is at the forefront of most people's minds (at least the women) is, "how did Jack propose?" Well, he tricked me! First of all, I need to give some background information and then I will take you into the actual proposal.
On Friday morning, August 19th, 2011, Jack and I drove to Tacoma to drop off Clare at Blake's house at 7:30 AM! We were headed up to the family cabin for the weekend, and Clare frequently stays with Blake when Jack and I are out of town. (Blake lived with Jack during college, and he helped raise Clare!)
After dropping off Clare, we headed to a leisurely breakfast while killing time as we were waiting to pick up my parents from the airport. They were coming into town to join their friends, Pam and Bob, on a boat trip through the San Juans. It has been tradition for the last couple of years for Jack and I to pick them up and take them to Anacortes, WA. So, FINALLY, at 9:45 AM, we pick up my parents and start the drive to Anacortes. This was nothing short of one of the most hysterical car rides of my life, although, I would expect nothing less from my parents (much less the Westbrook family). It was great to catch up and enjoy the beautiful Washington day!
On our way up to Anacortes, it is also tradition for us to stop at a little fishing shop to pick up bait for my parents boat trip. My dad does quite a bit of fishing over the week that they are gone. Little did I know, while mom and I were making fun of the ridiculous, I mean awesome, fishing hats, Jack was asking my father's permission to marry me! According to Jack, my dad just about had a heart attack when he asked because he was caught so off guard. Did I mention that they were in line at the cash register? So needless to say, I had absolutely no clue what was going-on, for all I knew they were talking fish bait and ridiculous, I mean awesome, fishing hats.
As the trip goes on, my dad and Jack keep this little secret to themselves, and they don't even tell my mother! We were with my parents for the next two or so hours, and I never caught on once. Apparently, my dad almost spoiled the surprise, but caught himself each time, and I never knew a things.
After leaving my parents in Anacortes, Jack and I made the trip back toward the cabin. This was the first time that Jack and I had been to the cabin by ourselves in a LONG time, so we were looking forward to a quiet weekend. We do love going up to the cabin with others, but it was nice to have some time to ourselves. Jack and I settled in and watched our usual Friday evening programs, Wheel of Fortune and Jeopardy. After these programs ended, Jack told me that he had a surprise for me. This is where the trick happens! He told me that it was a small gift as a thank you for moving to DC with him, however, it isn't the small gift that I have been expecting. So, immediately, I am thinking, well GOSH, what could it be. He comes out of the bedroom, with a little red box with a bow in hand. I am thinking, this must be earrings or something really small! As I open the bow, and pull out the box, I still am not yet sure of what I am getting. I finally get the box open, and I look in side, and sure enough, it was a ring, a gorgeous sparkly, diamond ring. I immediately start crying (tears of joy), and Jack looks at me and says, "You weren't supposed to cry." And as he is hugging me as I am shaking and crying, he says, "Will you marry me?" Of COURSE, I said yes!
Many of you were involved with the conversations to come afterwords, so I will spare you the details. However, I would like to say this, I was COMPLETELY surprised even though there were a couple of tell-tale signs that I didn't realize were tell-tale signs until after the fact. Also, we are just so thrilled and excited to be moving into this stage of our life. Thank you family and friends for all of the love and support!